For some people it takes only a few minutes to get over a breakup, while there are some who just cannot manage to forget the relationship that is no more. If you are reading this, then you probably belong to the latter category.
If you want to be with him again you are either thinking that whatever issues there were can be solved, or that you want another chance with him to prove yourself.
When any relationship ends it is due to problems that could not be sorted out while being in the relationship. However, getting back to an ex is a difficult task to accomplish and a lot depends on the situations that led to the breakup.
This post will discuss ways you can rebuild your relationship and make it last. So let’s find out what are they;
#1. Stay Single
If you want to get your ex back try not to see anyone else since this might create more confusions and push your ex further away. After a breakup many people are tempted to get into a new relationship, and in most cases such relationships are nothing more than a rebound.
It not only destroys your chances of getting back with your ex, but also puts you through another journey of mental turmoil and indecisiveness.
#2. Do Not Try To Make Him Feel Jealous
If you are under the impression that you can get someone back in your life by making them feel jealous, you are probably ruining whatever possibility there is to get him back. If you want him back you need to let him know that you still love him and no one else has been able to take his place.
If you try to make him jealous by being seen with other men, chances are he will think he is no longer the one for you and that you do not love him anymore.
#3. Do Not Over Express Eagerness
While it is alright to let him know that you would not mind being on friendly terms with him, expressing too much eagerness might make him wary of you. Even you are dying on the inside to get back with him, do not let it show.
There are two possibilities if you overly express your eagerness; he’ll distance himself from you or he’ll take you for granted. However, it would be equally wrong if you completely ignore him. If you want to get things rolling again, it is important that you know how to strike a balance.
#4. Do Not Be A Nag
Being too persistent can also make things difficult for you. He may just start avoiding you altogether. If he is interested in you or in being friends with you he won’t have to try too hard. Allow things to just take their course.
Would you want someone constantly showing up, calling or texting no matter what the time of day? Calling or texting someone over and over when they are not responding only amounts to nagging. If he intends to respond, you will not have to try hard at all to reach him.
#5. Do Not Bring Up Past Issues
If you have decided to let go of your differences and get back with him, do not bring up fights that happened in the past. It is only going to make things awkward between the two of you, and will hurt your chances of getting him back.
If there is anything that you feel needs to be sorted out, bring it up when he is ready. A serious discussion on such things is only possible when both of you are ready to give the relationship another try.
#6. Have Patience But Do Not Let Opportunities Pass
Going slow in such situations keeps you steady. But, make sure that you are not letting your opportunities pass you by. Once you manage to rebuild a comfort zone between yourselves, it is time to let him know what you want.
Also, try to read his thoughts. If he is also willing to get back together, chances are he will start showing signs. However, if you delay too long and don’t let him know what you want, he might think you are not interested and move on.
How to Keep Him Forever
Once you have the chance to reunite with your ex, the last thing you want is to lose him all over again. However, not everyone can put back together, and hold on to, a relationship that was once broken into pieces.
The following suggestions will help you avoid the common mistakes that lead to a breakup for a second time:
#7. Try To Mend Your Ways
Just saying it is not enough. You need to realize where you went wrong and work on it so that it doesn’t happen again. Repeating the same mistakes that led to the breakup in the first place can quickly and easily destroy the trust that you tried so hard to re-instill in him.
#8. Do Not Keep On Pressing Him With Mistakes That He Committed Earlier
Sort out all the differences you had before getting into the relationship for a second time. Once you’re in it, there is no point badgering him with things that are no longer an issue. Starting afresh means leaving behind the past completely and not looking back.
#9. Take Note Of Things That You Previously Ignored
You may have taken a lot of things for granted the last time. Make sure you pay attention to those things this time.
It can be small things such as remembering to do something he likes, cooking his favorite foods once in awhile, or telling him how amazing he is. They might not sound like a big deal, but they do make your partner feel immensely good about themselves.
Conclusion
Getting back with an ex can be a difficult journey if your feelings are not reciprocated. Convincing a person who has lost faith in you, or relationships in general, can take a long time.
But if you consider it to be worth all the effort, then you should go for it and make it happen. A good relationship will have fights, disagreements and low moments, but at the end of the day you will look forward to coming home to each other.
Reunite With Your Ex-Partner
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I surely am from the latter category. I have never been so desperate for anything in my life like I am today. All I need is to get back with my ex. And I will do whatever it takes to achieve that. Thanks @Admin for such amazing tips. After reading this article, I know what I need to do to get him back. I am sure going by these tips, I will be with him in no time.
Thanks Admin for this article. After my breakup, I was devastated and was not sure what to do. I came across this article on the internet and decided to read it. I implemented these tips to get him back and they sure did work for me. Though it took some time and patience, but the end result was worth all the efforts. I and my ex are together now without any misunderstandings between us.
The article has all the aspects of ways to get back with your ex. But it is also important to remember to work on changing your habits if you really need to remain together forever. You need to focus on what went wrong before your breakup. Resolve those issues and misunderstandings and make sure that they do not come up again. One should always leave the troubled past and misunderstandings and look forward to a new beginning.
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