Comments on: How To Get Your Ex Back When He Discovers You Are Dating Someone

By: Carmen Vikholm

Carmen Vikholm — Thu, 24 Aug 2017 13:10:58 +0000

This is the best I can do at the moment. I have fallen so deep in the pit that I cannot find a way to get out of this. I haven’t been doing the right thing and I get it. But I needed someone to guide me. I am a very private person and do not share my problems with anyone, except for those who are really very close to me. And even they are not always ready to listen. Looking up the net was everything I could do to calm down the condradicting thoughts whirling in mind all the time. I am thankful that I found this article and it appears there is nothing I can do than just tell him the truth and put the confusion at rest. Dating someone right after the break up was the worst thing.

By: Chad Peterman

Chad Peterman — Thu, 17 Aug 2017 13:26:23 +0000

I know there are many people out there who do not know what they want. And it is a very good article for those who are in two minds. Being someone’s rebound is the worst thing that can happen to you. It can torn you up and just completely jeopardize you. So, I think if someone hasn’t gotten over their past they should remain single and gather themselves up first before moving on to someone else. If you think you have been wronged then you should also try not to do wrong things to others. A nice article for those suffering from this dilemma. It is indeed the best someone can do.

By: Melissa Allen

Melissa Allen — Tue, 08 Aug 2017 11:39:50 +0000

Yes, I agree with this explanation. If you have to let go of someone, do it in a less hurtful way. And to lie would be to disrespect the other person. It is better to tell the truth and bear the brunt. Also it is important to close one chapter completely before beginning another one. So, if an ex is doubtful that you are dating someone else, one should first clear their stance. If I saw my ex dating someone else I would draw myself away from him. And chances are I will not want to be with him again, even if he leaves the current partner to ne with me. Ofcourse it would leave me with a skeptic mind. If he can leave her for me, he can leave me again for someone else! I think men would also have a similar concern.

By: Michael Clark

Michael Clark — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 07:56:50 +0000

I personally believe that once a couple breaks up, there isn’t really much left to the relationship. No matter how hard you try to restore the old times, it won’t happen, because it leaves such deep scars that literally never heals. So, my suggestion is instead of craving for your ex, try to find someone who is fit for you. Never even go for rebounds, they cannot help you get over someone. You are only going to feel more terrible. And if you are already dating someone, make sure you don’t have to leave him for someone else, even if that someone is your ex.

By: Simon Arthur

Simon Arthur — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 07:54:27 +0000

I came to read this article because I found it to be quite an unusual blog. But well written no doubt. I wonder what I would do if I ever have to go through a situation like this. But one thing I can vouch for about myself is that I will not date a man until I have really started liking him. And yes, there will be no space for an ex. I understand that human emotions can work in a strange and unpredictable manne, but I personally believe that there is no point crying over spilled milk. It is better to look forward to a new life and a new start.

By: Cloee Smith

Cloee Smith — Thu, 27 Jul 2017 09:32:32 +0000

I was stuck in a similar dilemma and it was such a testing phase for me. I could hardly concentrate on anything. I could not totally get over my ex, and yet I was dating someone else. And the worst part was this guy who I was dating was in love with me. But when I could continue it no longer, I came clean with him. He asked me to take my time and decide what I really want. I tried to reconnect with my ex, but I did not feel the same connection anymore. I understood, that he was no longer meant for me. I did not get back to the other guy as well. No, I am happily single and I am in touch with none of these guys. And it is so peaceful.

By: Rachel Kelley

Rachel Kelley — Thu, 27 Jul 2017 09:31:24 +0000

It is such a tough job! And there is also no guarantee that the ex is even willing to get back. Ladies, don’t just break someone’s heart because of your own indecisiveness! Love is a weird thing and can make you do things you never imagined you can do. But let those be nice things, not something that would leave a bad impression on someone about relationships and love.

By: Susan Walker

Susan Walker — Mon, 24 Jul 2017 13:25:38 +0000

Thanks for the tips. I had one of my friends read it, because she has been going through a similar phase. Although she was not exactly seeing someone specific, but her ex kind of assumed that she was. True that its terrible to even think that someone who made you fall for her is not in love with you and still craves for an ex. I think if you’re not sure about someone, it is better not to fool around with that person. If I cannot respect other people’s feeling, I cannot expect others to respect mine as well. It was a great read and also very practical. A perfect advise for girls stuck in a dilemma.

By: Michelle Clark

Michelle Clark — Mon, 24 Jul 2017 13:21:54 +0000

A few months after my break up with my boyfriend I started dating someone else. But few weeks into it I realized that he is only a rebound, although I had no intention of going back to my ex, it was over forever. But I realized that if I continue to be with this guy I will not only be doing injustice to him, but also to myseelf. I cannot bear to do wrong to someone knowlingly. I told him the truth and to my relief, he believed me and we could draw a line to the so-called relationship without too much of complexities.

By: Elien Rose

Elien Rose — Mon, 24 Jul 2017 13:15:36 +0000

I found the title somewhat queer so thought of going through it. I think anyone who has landed in a situation like this has already messed up things quite badly. Why would you date someone else if you want to go back to your ex? If you are still in love with someone and badly want to go back to him then please do not raise someone’s hopes and then crush it. I liked the piece though. I think the tips here suggest the best possible way someone can pull this off.