Comments on: 5 Tell-Tale Signs Your Ex is on the Rebound and How to Get Back Together

By: Danny Welch

Danny Welch — Mon, 18 Sep 2017 12:04:41 +0000

I am not trying to get my ex back here. But I have a bit of an insight on this topic. I have been somebody’s rebound and I just found this article on a random search and yes, a lot of these things have happened to me. I did not realize it at first because he was not too clear about his past. He was moving super fast with the relationship, and it seemed very odd to me. But then after some time, I realized he was still in love with his ex-girlfriend. I felt more insulted than hurt. He meant to use me to either get over his ex or to make her jealous. But this phase that I had to face served as a learning lesson to me.

By: Karinne

Karinne — Tue, 29 Aug 2017 10:27:13 +0000

This has become so common now, using someone to get over someone else. It does no good to anybody. Neither will you get your back ex this way, because it is only going to push them further off, nor will you be doing justice to the other person. A lot of people still do it. Well I personally feel that if your boyfriend started seeing someone else right after the break up, its better to just let him be. He isn’t strong enough for a relationship.

By: Elina Kuusio

Elina Kuusio — Thu, 24 Aug 2017 13:14:31 +0000

The title caught my attention, so felt like giving it a read. I am in a mess right now, and it got harder when I saw him sharing pictures of himself with someone else on social media. I was like “that was fast!” But truely could not believe what I saw. We were together for 6 long years, and now he is already dating someone else, that too within a couple of months of our break up. I was asking myself, did he really love me! or he was just fooling around! But it was a long period of time and kind of imporssible to just fool around for that long. This article saved me. I am now almost certain that he is on the rebound.

By: Michelle Courchesne

Michelle Courchesne — Thu, 17 Aug 2017 13:29:48 +0000

So it looks like my ex is also on a rebound, most likely. I have been hearing he is already seeing someone else and we just broke up last month. I was more surprised than shattered. Didn’t know what to make of this. True that the relationship didnt work out, but he was not the kind of a person who would get over it so quickly. I had my doubts, but never expressed or made any effort to verify things as well. But, again, he is not too showy about it. As in I have never seen him interact with her on the social media or there is also no picture of them together.

By: Mariel Boyle

Mariel Boyle — Tue, 08 Aug 2017 11:33:08 +0000

I got back together with my boyfriend last month following a 10-month break up and I faced a similar situation. I found this article in a random search and thought about going through it. This one is so relatable to me or the situations I had to face. I got worried when I saw him interacting with other women, and even flirting with them. But, something told me this is not real, this is not him. I still tired to distance myself from him and whatever he is up to. But then he reached out to me and told me he can no longer pull this off, which according to him was an attempt to make me jealous. I did not believe him at first, but over the time he earned back my trust and we are together again.

By: Katherine Hopkins

Katherine Hopkins — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 07:39:42 +0000

I have seen so many of my friends do these and I grew so tired of telling them not to allow someone to regard them with pity. Your boyfriend should be with you because he loves you and not because he pities you! as simple as that. I will forward this link to those friends, if it can be of any help to them in dealing with other people. I will not let any one treat me like that in the first place. If it did not work, fair enough, I am not begging anyone to return.

By: Stuart Francis

Stuart Francis — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 07:37:42 +0000

Thank you. It was an inspiring piece. I was so shattered after the breakup, I could not think clearly. Whether or not I manage to rebuild the relationship it is important to rebuild myself first, for my own sake. I have become weaker and negativity clouds my mind all the time and I understand that I cannot be like this for very long. I have to gather myself and be strong again. No one trusts someone who cannot take care of themselves. Keep these motivating posts coming. It was helpful in making me evaluate my own state of mind.

By: Gordon Martis

Gordon Martis — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 07:35:37 +0000

Wow! I raked through the internet to find answer to juct this question. And I loved it, because it has given me a ray of hope that may be he hasn’t forgotten me altogether. We only broke up few weeks ago and I see he is already seeing someone. I was heart broken to learn about it and could not figure out how he could do it. But now that a lot of things here matched his behaviour, I am kind of hopeful. Keeping my fingers crossed and let’s see what future has in store for me.

By: Rachel Jones

Rachel Jones — Mon, 03 Jul 2017 14:03:42 +0000

I almost thought my ex boyfriend already got over me as I recently spotted him with another woman. Although I cannot tell for sure, but maybe she is just a rebound for him.

By: Alina Smith

Alina Smith — Fri, 09 Jun 2017 11:11:14 +0000

This is an honest confession. Once you have broken up, you have broken up and there is no getting back together. After we broke up, I slipped into a miserable state that lasted for months. I looked for ways to get back to him, but it was difficult. Then, one fine day I got a call from this man and he wanted to meet me. I was so happy I was lost for words. We did start seeing each other again, but there was something not right between us. Then I realized that when a relationship breaks, it leaves behind scars that take more than a life time to heal. I realized that I can never be with him again.