Comments on: Top Memories To Remind Your Ex To Get Him Back

By: Audrey Love

Audrey Love — Thu, 17 Aug 2017 13:25:43 +0000

I think this applies to those who are still in touch with their former partners, and not those like me. It is a ‘long’ process. To get back in touch with him, befriend him and develop that comfort zone first and then begin to remind him of your sweet memories. I guess by the time I manage to get to the final part, he will already be dating someone else. This will work for those who would bump on their ex accidentally and in a natural flow of situation. You cannot forcefully create a situation and expect it to work, not in love.

By: Whitney Reichman

Whitney Reichman — Tue, 08 Aug 2017 11:41:36 +0000

Great article. It’s all bitter and dull after a break up and its like you cannot remember anything good about the relationship after all the turmoils you have been through. But I agree that the memories are the only thing that keep the power of making things alright again. If bad memories can ruin things, good ones can make it as well. In my personal opinion, I would like to remember the good parts only and carry on if I really wanted to be with someone so badly.

By: Craig Jager

Craig Jager — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 07:51:53 +0000

It is the memories that stop people from moving on from a break up. But once you have moved on, these memories lose their ability to ignite emotions. So, although I agree partly with this article, I feel that it also depends a lot on the timing. That is to say, when you are trying to revive those memories for him. If it has been years and he doesn’t seem to bother much about you or the former relationship, there is no point. There are a lot of clauses attached to it. Also, memories can also push him farther away, if he suspects you to be tryong to manipulate him. Therefore, I would suggest that one should first evaluate the circumstances and then move ahead.

By: Gloria Moore

Gloria Moore — Thu, 27 Jul 2017 09:28:40 +0000

I think someone who really wants to reconnect with their ex, this is the best way. I cannot really think of any other way. Once broken, it is almost impossible to take the relationship to its former glory. But I think for someone who badly wants it back again, refreshing old memories can actually break the ice. But, again I wonder what effect that would have on the partner? There’s a possibility that he might get even more upset. Well, it is a highly circumstantial thing and the reactions will vary from person to person. Anyway, at least it is the safest and the best thing one can do according to me

By: Katie Rose

Katie Rose — Thu, 27 Jul 2017 09:27:04 +0000

To be able to remind your ex of the sweet memories of the past you have to first build that comfort zone with him that is already lost. Therefore, it will need a lot of effort before you can actually get there. But yes, if you could successfully overcome the initial hurdles, this is a nice way to guide him back to the relationship, to let him know that all is not lost. Although it will take a lot of convincing power to make him think that way again, but what’s wrong in trying?

By: Caroll Young

Caroll Young — Mon, 24 Jul 2017 13:08:32 +0000

Carefully bringing up the best memories from the past is indeed one of the stroongest ways to reconnect with an ex. Obviously before getting there one has to first break the ice and revive the talking terms. Incidents or situations that led up to a break up may not have been too good. And if thats what clouding his mind, then the best way to bring him out of that state is to remind him of the nocer times. If you could have a good time together once, it is possible yet again.

By: Kristi Hall

Kristi Hall — Mon, 24 Jul 2017 13:06:20 +0000

Memories can play a tricky role in our lives. True that if you remind your ex of the good times he shared with you he might start feeling good about you all over again. But that is again a chance one has to take. This particular piece caught my interest because i found it to be a positive idea. People can be so nagging at times that they scare away their former lovers. I like how the article points out that maintaing subtlety in one’s approach an demeanor is the key. Obviously if it is too apparent it will turn awkward. I would say it has been a quite an interesting piece. And thanks for the advice.

By: Denelle Jones

Denelle Jones — Mon, 24 Jul 2017 13:04:02 +0000

It needs a lot of patience and a real will power to actually take advantage of the right moment and bring up a sweet memory from the past. My two-year long relationship ended a few months ago, and we shared a plenty of good times together. Even I am willing to go to that extent for him, but I everytime I pull back myself in the fear how he would respond to it. What if he said something insensitive? What if those memories mean nothing to him any more? I would be hurt because they mean a lot to me.

By: Alina Smith

Alina Smith — Wed, 12 Jul 2017 09:54:58 +0000

Getting back an ex is like one of the toughest jobs on the earth. It is the best to realize your mistakes and mend your ways before it is too late. I dont know how well this trick will work, but I believe that if he still has feeling for you, these memories would automatically play into his mind. You do not need to put it there deliberately. And if he has forgortten everything already, it is unlikely that anything related to the past will have any effect on him. But still worth a try if you feel you really want someone back in your life.

By: Elien Clark

Elien Clark — Tue, 11 Jul 2017 10:00:44 +0000